Wednesday, April 3, 2019

Annoying neighbors

It never ceases to amaze me how low class and trashy some people can act.  Yesterday evening around 6 PM the neighbors were yet again stomping through the house and sounding as though they were coming through the ceiling.  I was not feeling good so my older son knocked on their door and politely asked them if they could keep it down because his mom (me) wasn't feeling good.  Well the man decides to get rude with him and told him that it was during the day and they would make as much noise as they wanted and that we were never to climb his stairs and knock on his door again.  Well that was the straw that broke the camel's back because earlier in the day the woman was screaming at the top of her lungs at her 11 year old son.  Okay whatever I get it he is your kid but, when you are being that loud right outside my kitchen window and it is closed and has a blackout curtain on it and I can hear every word you you are screaming.  Also my son who was all the way in the back of the house with his door closed and his video game on could hear her and my daughter who was in the living room with her phone up could hear her, and me in my room with my TV on could hear her that is when I have a problem because you are then disturbing the peace.  My husband walked out onto our back porch and calmly asked her if she could tone it down because he didn't want his kids hearing all of that.  She had the nerve to roll her eyes and keep on going, so I walked out on the porch and just looked at her and she decided to take it upstairs and quite it down.  So when they were rude to my son I lost it finally and decided that it was time to fight fire with fire and I cranked my stereo up to 35.  Okay let me explain my stereo is actually a DJ system and let me tell you it can really thump.  It didn't take them 2 minutes to come flying down their stairs and bang on my door.  So I fling open my door and standing furious on my back porch is their teenage son and he immediately starts yelling at me telling me that it is my turn to be quiet and that I am going to turn the music down now.  Okay that went over like a lead balloon because for one you are a punk ass child and you are not going to demand me to do anything.  My kids will tell you that will never work for me.  You might ask me nicely if I will do it but demanding me and yelling at me nope that shit won't fly.  Well I am assuming that he has not heard the word no to much in his short life because he grew more and more angry when I told him no I was listening to my music because remember it is day time and we can do as we please.  He proceeded to get louder and more belligerent and I told him to get off my porch that I was not dealing with a child.  Well by then his dad had come down the stairs and was just standing there.  His son proceeded to call me a Bitch and a Whore, I took one look at his dad and I said excuse me is that the kind of kid that you are raising that you would allow him to talk to a woman that way.  All his dad could say was to tell him to go back upstairs.  Excuse me no apology or anything wow, you let one of my kids talk to an adult like that and they will be spitting out teeth and apologizing with their teeth in their hand.  I do not put up with and have never put up with that kind of behavior from my kids and no my kids are not perfect far from it but they know how to talk to an adult.  Well the dad's woman came downstairs and started running her mouth and I told her to shut up and go back upstairs because this had nothing to do with her.  The dad said the reason his son was so upset was because he couldn't hear his TV.  Well boo who cry me a river build a bridge and get over it because with all the noise that they make upstairs there is time that I cannot sleep or hear my TV but you don't see my kids going up there and calling the adults out of their names.  Even the dad never apologized for his son's behavior he only made excuses for him.  Oh and their excuse for all the running and jumping in the house is because the 11 year old has ADHD, oh great just more excuses.  So you are telling me that when he goes to school that he doesn't sit and do his work that he is running through the classroom non stop and jumping around because I will call Bullshit on that because I have worked with kids that have ADHD in the school system and they had better control of themselves than that.  Kids know when their parents are making excuses for them and they will do whatever they can get by with.  I am not saying that ADHD is not a real thing but, people also use that as an excuse to allow their children to misbehave and be rude and I don't have time for all of that nonsense because my home is a place of peace of me and I don't want to put up with your child's nonsense.  When they first moved in the landlord rented it to the man and his teenage son but, since moving in he has moved in a woman, her 11 year old son and another teenage girl.  So all together they have 2 adults and 3 kids living in a small 2 bedroom apartment.  After me telling the man he needs to but a muzzle and a leash on his woman she decided that she would go back upstairs but, not before she informed me that I was rude and didn't know how to properly treat my husband with respect.  Bitch please you don't even know me or know how I treat my man.  My man starts out his day with me laying his clothes out, me fixing him breakfast and coffee before work and fixing his lunch to take to work, I keep the house clean and when he comes home he has a hot meal waiting on him.  I help him take off his shoes and socks when he gets home, fix him a plate of food.  When he goes and takes a shower or bath I bring him his clothes.  I wait on my man because he works and provides for our family and I don't have to work.  Then we watch what he wants to watch on TV.  So before you start telling me that I don't respect my man you better stop and recognize who you are addressing and you better back up and get your nose up out of my koolaid before you get your beak slapped off.  My husband thought for sure that I was going to fight her but, like I told him she was at least smart enough to stay at her steps and not approach my porch because if she would have got to close this here cobra would have struck.  I don't like to get loud and rowdy because I am way to old for all that drama and nonsense but, don't get it twisted I will not allow someone to get in my face and disrespect me because then I will deal with my business and roll on.  Well I guess I have ranted enough on that subject but, I had to get it off my chest and out of my head.  On a better note we bought a garden tiller, it is used but it was a one owner and garage kept and it is a craftsman brand so I was really happy about that.  And the best part is that we only paid $70 for it.  I am really excited because now my husband can plow up me a vegetable garden and my flower garden.  Well I have a lot to do today so I am going to close for now.  Peace and Love to all my family and friends.

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